It's that last question where most guys get stuck and end up with the cliche answer of "the bar." The reality is very few relationships begin in bars and pubs. According to a survey by sociologist David Grazian, only 20% of adults met their most recent partner at a bar.  So there has to be other places to meet a woman, right?

Sure there are. But first, do yourself a favor. Forget the where for a second and instead focus on the why. Why are you looking? Be honest. If your answer is: "because I'm unhappy/bored with being alone, and I'd just really like to be in a relationship…" then you might as well be looking for a date on Jupiter. Get more than okay with yourself and be fine with being alone, and then it'll happen. As to where? Could be anywhere. Amazing, single women are certainly out there. But they tend to only reveal themselves as such to confident men who are open to a relationship, yet at the same time aren't exhibiting the slightest hint of desperation. Now with all that said, here's a few non-bar places to keep your ears up…