If you're a member of such a democratic group, you're expected — and maybe forced — to go along with and support whatever it does and to actively oppose what it's against. Your behavior is circumscribed and limited.

Have you whole-heartedly accepted that you're one of such a collection of folks? If so, you're likely a victim of the Collective Fallacy.

Real (natural) democracy doesn't work that way. In natural democracy those folks who agree on something get together and do it. They don't involve the folks who aren't interested or don't like it. They don't expect those folks to contribute in any way, especially by donating time or resources of any kind. "Money" for example.  

This is still how we as individuals usually and naturally do things — until we get involved with involuntary groups such as governments. Or with other semi-permanent groups which control resources which must be administered.