My heart goes out to all the parents who were never planning to homeschool, but nevertheless find themselves teaching their children at home today. I chose this beautiful, crazy life, and I completely understand why some people wouldn't choose it. But here we are. We have to do what we have to do. You don't want them to fall behind. You don't want to lose your mind.

Believe it or not, it's a golden opportunity.

Caveat: these are only my personal thoughts. I'm not a professional educator, just a parent successfully homeschooling.

This advice is only for people whose greatest hurdle right now is remaining sane with the little ones. This is a high bar to clear, to be sure, but some people are facing the little people plus big financial problems, they're sick or working through mental health issues, or they're managing other emergencies. In those cases, if you're keeping everyone more or less fed and warm then you're succeeding, and you don't need me to tell you to forget the rest for as long as necessary.

For everyone else, I do have a little advice. I'm sure you're getting support from your school district, which is excellent. Worrying about what to teach is often a new homeschooler's first and biggest concern. But deciding what to teach is actually the easy part, and now it's mom, dad, uncle or grandma doing the really hard part: actually sitting with the kid, helping/making him or her do the work.

First, I think you can safely let go of the worry that you may not be a good enough teacher because you're a terrible speller, or you think you're bad at math. It's good to know these things about yourself so they can be addressed, but the truth is that how great you personally are at division isn't necessarily a predictor of success. Neither is how well you explain things, or even how well you demonstrate looking things up, although that is a priceless skill to impart to inquiring minds. To my mind, the most important skill for successful homeschooling is:

Controlling your own frustration

We adults are fantastically knowledgeable and amazingly skilled. No, really, we are! So we forget how hard it is to do seemingly simple things for the first time. I remember sitting in my college biochemistry class, listening to the professor say:

"Come on you guys, this is easy!"

Folks, I'm here to tell you that biochemistry isn't easy for most people who are new to it, especially people who just drug themselves out of bed five minutes ago, possibly with a touch of a hangover. And reading isn't easy for a five-year-old, and multiplication isn't easy for an eight-year-old.