I like the second batch of people. They are my friends and it seems like they are sincerely asking for my advice. And I'm going to give it to them. Whether they meant it or not.

I have some stories about owning a home. One of them is here: "What It Feels Like to be Rich" where I describe my complete path into utter depravity and insanity. The other one is still too personal. Its filled with about as much pain as I can fit onto a page. Oh, I have a third one also from when I was growing up. But I don't want to upset anyone in my family so I'll leave it out. Oh, I have a fourth story that I just forgot about until this very second. But enough about me. Let's get right to it.

There are many reasons to not buy a home: [By the way, I also put this in the category of Advice I want to tell my daughters, including my other article: 10 reasons not to send your kids to college.]

Financial:

A)     Cash Gone. You have to write a big fat check for a downpayment. "But it's an investment," you might say to me. Historically this isn't true.