That of course caricatures the situation somewhat (Wagner is well-organized), but it's not that far off. And that spells a serious problem for NATO.
All of those 31 members may have lots of control over their media, but in the end you can't endlessly deny being defeated.
So what will NATO do now? They will double down, and then again. And at the end of the "doubling down road" lie nuclear weapons. Not Russian nukes, because as my friend Wayne wrote the other day, their high-precision hypersonic missiles make nukes look crude and primitive, Middle Ages territory. But NATO/US never developed such weapons. They spent 10+ times as much money on weapons, still do, and -comparatively – ended up with bows and arrows.
Nuclear bombs are good only to create widespread panic and destruction. But that includes your own destruction, because of Mutually Assured Destruction protocols. Which also go back almost as far as the bow and arrow. If you fire a nuclear missile, one very much like it will land on your head a few minutes later. End of story, end of you.
US/NATO, the "collective west", the hegemon, has lost. And has missed the moment when that occurred. Because hegemon equals hubris. Look at what they've all still been saying, and you notice they can't see, and can't acknowledge, that -and how- the world has changed. Not just this weekend, and the 9 months before, in Artyomovsk. It's the entire story of Ukraine: it illustrates how the West "lost it".
The US plotted a coup and moved NATO's borders east, and Russia reacted exactly how they said they would. No nukes, no nazis, no NATO. They got the last two, and know they can expect the first too. But still the west maintains Russia's special operation was entirely unprovoked. Look, they're not even listening anymore. They would like to negotiate and end all this, but negotiate about what? Putting AZOV back on the borders of the Donbass, so they can kill more Russians there? Not going to happen.