You see, the reason Sanjay is stuck - and the reason many of us feel that way - is that we focus on what's present for us at any particular moment. On the other hand, what most of us want most is to move forward. And, by definition, paying attention to the present keeps us where we are. So, sure, I can help Sanjay be a better "present" Sanjay. But I will have a much greater impact if I help him become a successful "future" Sanjay.